On Clearing the Universal Male and Female Programs

There is a universalness about this, in that all females have accepted this program into their being in order to co-create, which has been, shall we say, the traditional feminine role. It is not just the last 2,000 years. It goes back eons, and the program is that of grief and sorrow and it is for the female to be resigned to her fate, as it were, and be continually in a grieving process for something or other - what ever seems to be appropriate - and it can be anything that creates sorrow. And it emanates out from that area of the female which is, only the female, that second chakra area, and permeates every aspect of the female's life. For it is in the form of a restriction and it stifles, as it were, that which the female might wish to empower, because in the background is always the propensity for grief and for sorrow. And sometimes these emotions come up into the third chakra and manifest themselves as - "I'm going to get even!" "I'm going to get revenge!" "I am angry" - oh, yes - we've spent a great deal of time in that particular emotion, have we not?

The males also have a program and it tends to hang out in their male places and tends to gravitate up into, and be very impacting upon, the third chakra, and it has something to go like this: "Well, if she is wanting to grieve and be sorrowful, I'll give her something to grieve about! I'll go off to war and get myself hurt or killed I'll co-create sons with her for that same purpose. I'll control her. I'll step on her. I'll enslave her." Now these are not conscious, necessarily. In fact, in most, they are not, they are subconscious. But these are ancient, ancient programs that were given, oh, as a part of the veil process, if you will. It does tend to stifle one's divinity, does it not? It does tend to get in the way of unconditional love, forgiveness, gratitude, compassion and all of the other high-vibrational frequencies that we are so delighted to be talking about!

So we are showing and advising a program whereby these downward frequency programs may be released and removed, transmuted and be gone forevermore, from both the female and the male. And so we are looking for a few leaders who would come and have this process proceeded with, and from there it will go out. And the joyful news is that when 2,222 females and 3,333 males have undergone this process,** well, it takes a little more, you know, because we're talking about integrating male and female. The males in general, are more resistant to allowing the feminine qualities to express through them because they consider that to be weakness. And what are we talking about anyway? We're talking about releasing the power and control desire program. And indeed, sometimes it is so strong, it is just the leading program in the whole male lifespan.

So we're talking about giving up something that has been very much a part of the male psyche. We're talking about giving up something that has been very much with the females. But this is what humans can do. This is what every human can do if they so desire, and this is what will happen with every human in order to make it possible for them to achieve this integration and balance. And it will greatly facilitate the ascension process and it will greatly facilitate the clearing and healing and cleansing and balancing and integrating with new energies, the energies of the human, anywhere in their circle, that have been impeded or have been in expression of this particular program.

You see, it comes out in the three lower seals and it can radiate anywhere in the entire circle of being, not just physical. This can create a whole pattern of emotions that are so subtle, so ingrained, so programmed, that the beings don't even know that they're there.

You have given the "go" signal and so we are simply facilitating. We're not doing it. You are. Each and every one of you - and each and every one of you is to take full responsibility for that step - for taking that step.

We bring you to this very important topic called "intent." We've given you, shall we say, the general outline of this process. We've told you that your channels will be opened up, so that you can clear. We've told you that you will undergo the exact clearing process for the program. And we have told you that there are different areas that will then be cleared, as a result of clearing the program. But what do you want? Paint your picture of yourself, totally free of this program. Bring that with you. Write it down if you wish. You can put it under your pillow while the process goes on, if you so choose. There will be a statement of your intent and you can read it if you wish, or you can wing it, but we ask that you give consideration to it. Because this is basic. And this is getting in touch with who you really are and the role that you are here to play, and what your mission is, and how you are going to express, and all of those things. It's all wrapped up - rolled into this glorious word called intent!

Now let me give you a bit of learning - "in - tent". "Tent" comes from a root word that means "to hold," "to have," "to hold," and "in," of course, means "in." So you want to bring it into your being and hold on and grow from there. So that is what creating your intent is about - it is to bring it in, and to welcome it in, and when you have it in your fields, hold it there. You've heard of holding the intent. Now when you do this and you undergo the process, do you know what happens? Well, it multiplies - ex - po - nentially!!! and it goes out to the world and that is why we have given you these numbers, based in the number 2, and based in the number 3, because when those clearings are accomplished by holding that intent, and radiating it out to the world, you have done it for humankind. And as you do it, for humankind, you do it for the entire universe, because all the kingdoms rejoice, as we have said, below, on and above, and it radiates out from there.

So this is a basic program. Basic - it is a basis. How you grow and evolve and how each and every one grows and evolves from there is their choice and it is their program that they have co-created, with their Creator Source, before coming in to the bodies. And this program was co-created eons ago and it has survived through the ages, genetically and beyond. The program has been activated by parents and others around, because, you know , that there have been stereotypes all along, "women are the weaker sex" - "the man's home is his castle" - HIS - let's get that right. Women have been sold, and men have, too, as slaves, but women have been sold. Their partnering has been arranged by their fathers and their mothers have told them "it's your fate, it's your lot in life, there is nothing that you can do about it, so just cry your tears and go to your fate." How delightful. (sarcasm)

But it was done with purpose and it was done with integrity - the integrity, of course, to create the desire to move up, to evolve, and to be done with this limitational program. Ah hah! So now there is activated knowledge of it and now there must be activated intent. It is not something that we do to you. It is something that you invite, create, and accomplish for yourself with our help, and I might add, with our love and with our gratitude and with our honoring of you for taking this step. And so you see, it is a step into the higher frequencies that you're choosing anyway. And just think how wonderful it will be to have this block, or impediment or restriction, removed!

So keep those lines and channels open - because that, dear ones, is your connection with the All That Is and with the Creator Source, or the one you call God-Mother-Father. It is your connection with Mother Gaia. It is your connection with all of the kingdoms. It is your connection with your relatives. Keep those channels open and en-joy! En-joy every moment - that is to be in joy. And of course, you do not have to do this, but if you would like, we give you the suggestion that you marry that into your intent - joy, love, Lovejoy - and keep that. We have told you all you have to do is open up and fill yourselves with it. Well, keep that in your intent. And you can add to it later, as you progress and evolve, it might very well be that it will change - you know, it's alive, it's an energy - it's not just words on a piece of paper or something that you read somewhere or on a sign - it's alive! Because it's your creation - you give it life. You give it empowerment.

October 10, 2004

Ashtar's Message, October 28, 2004 

Good Evening!! There is much exuberance here in this room tonight, is there not!

Now one of the aspects of this program is that which you call, "self-destructive mode." And you know what? That particular outgrowth of this program is much more prevalent in men. And you know why? Isn't it traditionally (never mind your individual circumstances), isn't it traditionally that men have to stand out in front of the woman and take all of the hits that come. Isn't it traditionally that the man has to be strong and brave, and it's not "manly" to cry. (Oh, what a bunch of baloney that one is!) But anyway, is it not the man who carries the self-image, because it's been programmed in, that it is up to him to fight, to protect, to be the brave, the strong one, to make all of the decisions, even. That has been the stereotypical role. It does not exist so much anymore in your country. But just go across the oceans and into what you call your "Middle East" areas. Go into your "Far East". Go into a lot of the countries where this is still the role of the man.

This is a heavy burden! And what happens is that the men are wanting to be human, but they have this image that they have to live up to. And one sure-fire way to get out of it is to self-destruct! Leave! Go pick a fight with a neighbor and let him shoot you dead. Then you don't have to do it anymore, do you! Get some kind of a diseasement or an imbalance going, and you can leave!

Now we are not trying to tell you that this does not happen in women also. It does! But it is predominantly a result of the core program which most of you have had removed, so you don't have to do that anymore - that is great news! - Women, too, can self-destruct, just as men can live a life of grief and sorrow. This crosses over, you know, and we are not saying there is a big dividing line down the middle. But we want the men to know that we are in understanding of this particular outgrowth of the program, because there is no need for that self destruction anymore. Oh, you can leave if you want to - you have free will, but there is no valid reason for this image anymore than there is a valid reason for the image of being weak or of being a controller. It is all what you all created in order for you to play out the many many dramas that you came here to play out.

So, why don't the women self-destruct as much as the men? Well, women have their outlets and women have generally have been freed from the stress of, for instance, going to war. They get all the grief when the man does not come home. But it is primarily a part of the created man's role that self destruction is a very common result of that core program.

And we have been delighted to give that particular insight into it because it does help to understand even more the urgency of the removal of the program. It does give some additional insights into it. And we have been putting out hints today about this. And we are delighted to be able to do so at this time because it is time.

Now every individual who comes for this treatment has a very individual experience. The removal takes care of the core program, but there can be other programs running as a result of it that you're not quite ready to release at that time, and the reason for that would be somewhat reassuring, would it not. The reason for that is because you are empowered by the removal of the core program, and you step more fully into your co-creator's role. It is important to have some time for the healing energies to balance so that you can consciously participate in what your next step might be. Now, some of you are not having anything more that is big to be released in this lifetime. Some of you might find something or other. And as you go through the Ascension process, you will find that there are times when you need a time-out anyway. You need a little bit of a rest. You have reached a plateau. And you may have some energies come in or some changes occur somewhere in your being, and you might want to have some facilitation to adjust or to balance, and that is perfect, because the understanding of those who are working in all of the facilitation areas is increasing exponentially!

There are many, many more who have understanding of these energy shifts and increases, and they are there for you. And let me tell you something else: your traditional community is waking up. They are much more anxious to do what is right for the individual instead of stuffing you into some kind of a pre-determined program or other.

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